You may have seen countless television shows and movies that show you how simple it is to go on vacation, flirt, have a fling, and fall in love with little to no problems. Oh, if only having a vacation romance was actually that easy!
What if we told you that it was? What if we told you that you could take your sexy self to some tropical location and find someone to flirt with, have a few great nights with, and ultimately have the best vacation ever? Sounds almost too good to be true, right? It’s not. Not at all!
We have some do’s and don’ts about having a vacation flirt fest to rival all other vacation!
Don’t go on vacation expecting to have a fling.
One of the biggest mistakes you could do is to go on vacation expecting that you’re going to meet someone who’s going to sweep you off your feet and you’re going to be doing it like rabbits the whole time. By anticipating a vacation romance, you’re making it your main focus, which is going to take away from the overall vacation experience!
Do be choosy about how you flirt with.
Even though you may be on vacation, that doesn’t mean you have to flirt and hookup with the first person who’s “doable” (pun intended). You don’t want to look back on your vacation and wonder how much you had to drink because you spent time with someone… Not that great.
Don’t put yourself into a risky situation.
You might be on vacation and you might want to make the most out of the experience. This doesn’t mean that you should go anywhere that seems sketchy just because it’s what the locals do. Also, you shouldn’t go out with someone without letting anyone know the full name of the person you’re going with and a picture (say you want take a selfie with them for “memories). Oh, and take mental note of the type of vehicle or identifying marks just for safety’s sake.
Do be open to possibilities.
The key to having a vacation romance is to be open to the possibilities. Instead of automatically assuming the person who is buying you a drink has nefarious intentions, be kind, polite, and appreciative. Most people you meet while on vacation are good people and you’ll be surprised how easy it is to make a connection with someone if you let your guard down.
Don’t get attached.
If you’re a sentimental person who has a tendency to get attached to someone, perhaps a sexy vacation flirt fest isn’t the best option for you because the chances of your fling falling head over heels in love and moving back home with you is slim to none. Now we aren’t saying it is impossible, but we are saying that you shouldn’t expect it. If you do have a vacation romance, recognize it for what it is and let it be.
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