What are those things True Love consists of? Every time I ask this question I get a sort of a recipe in response: few millions of kisses, thousands of passionate embrace, a handful of worship and great portion of sex… As for me, a shake like that looks pretty appetizing for one night stand but when it comes to long-term romance it would be better to look for something less sugary. In other words, sex, hugs and kisses do mean a lot for relations but there are more important things that make love happen in your adult life.
Actually, things I’m going to talk about few lines below couldn’t be considered as breaking news for those boys and girls who have tasted the joys of adult life. Still, if you want to go beyond looking for local friends with benefits and try something more essential that fuck-and-roll dating, you may need to recall the following essential things in your mind; things that make romance full of pleasures and true satisfaction:
Trust. In fact, this feature is essential for long-term romance: it fills your heart with peace and confidence concerning your mutual future. When you feel absolutely save while sharing your plans and dreams with your couple mate it makes your “love glands” produce lots of “positive” endorphines.
The ability to make compromises. It’s not a secret that even in the most successful relations both lovers live their own lives. In this regard, the ability to strike the happy medium is a true art of living together: it’s not easy to put up with your love mate’s habits and whims but if you feel absolutely OK with the way you live together, you have all you may need to build the best future for your relations.
Communication. Yeah, this stuff is in the list! It may sound incredible, but most modern couples fail to make it just just because of the lack of the communication. Every time you feel like to make some things clear, don’t be afraid to speak up and have an “adult talk” with your turtledove. After all, healthy discussion is much better than making excuses every time you make selfish decisions.
Selflessness. Well, guys, don’t know about you but this one seems to be the hard one to me!Still, in quite words of H. Jackson Brown, Jr., love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own. In other words, don’t be afraid of giving as much as you can in relations. Whatever you had to sacrifice, the final result is worth it!
Ability to forgive. No one is immune from making mistakes, as you may know. So, ability to keep your mind cool is priceless for couple making. Every time you feel like to blame her for another accident think twice as the best way to keep things going inside the couple is to share responsibility for making stupid mistakes. After all, you may be guilty of allowing another crap to happen, who knows? That’s right, chum, True Love requires lots of your diligence and patience but nobody says it’s easy to make your dreams come true.