Well, folks, don’t know about you but when it comes to creating a couple (once again!) with a nice looking chick I would like to know what exactly I want to get from new relations, and know it for sure! Let me explain it to you: people often confuse romance and lust which may lead to rather unpleasant imponderables. Let me explain what I mean. Suppose you met a girl “of your kind” on a free sex dating site; a girls who was looking for come-and-go sex partner just to have a lovely time tonight. So far so good, eh? Suddenly you realize that you want to get something more long-lasting from your sexy fairy: you want her to be your one and only “permanent girlfriend”, not just a fuck buddy! As for her, she doesn’t really think you’re that Prince Charming she’d love to spend the rest of her life with; it’s not that you’re good enough just for nsa sex, not at all, you just… aren’t a boy of her dreams. Problema!
They say, everything in this beautiful world comes to it’s end, and sex dating is one of those extra pleasant things that come to an end faster than others. But is it really so?
Truth to tell, there are some specific sex drive changes most men and women feel after 35-40: our libido gets affected by many adverse factors such as stress, work-related negative emotions, lack of sexual desire, side effects of drugs, and so on. In other words, you have the whole bunch of reliable sex drive killers to choose from.
Is it always easy to speak out when you’re in love? As for me, I still think that women usually feel more comfortable with making declarations of love in spite of all those crazy who-should-do-it-first beliefs widespread in modern society. It’s not that most guys today can’t switch to a gentleman mode when it’s necessary but sometimes it’s quite hard to get sensitive, understanding and gentle at once. You got that right, being in love may cause some troubles for inexperienced hearts. On the other hand, when it comes to so called Free Love embodied in local sex hookups, you don’t need to tie up with being Mr Perfect to catch a chick: nsa sex stands for pure voluptuous pleasures only!
However, even short-term relations make some grown-up folks feel kinda nervous which affects their behavior in very interesting way: adult men often act like children when they fall for hot dames. I really hope that evolutionary biology has an explanation for this phenomenon cause most behavior patterns human males demonstrate when trying to win females’ hearts (and not only hearts!) remind me of consort behavior you can observe in wild nature. Still in doubt? Well, let me refresh your memory then an give you a few most common examples:
Do you like local sex dates? What a silly question, indeed! Of course, you do! Well, in this case you have to know that success in local dating depends on very many small things every Don Juan needs to consider in order to conquer the heart of an innocent and credulous ninny. Ok-ok, women just allow us, men, to fool their honey hearts in order to enjoy the forbidden fruits one-night-stand offers to millions of adult desperados 24/7.